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August 31, 2026

5 Ways To Get The most Out Of Your Therapy Session

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I will preface this blog by saying I’m assuming you have the right therapist with the right approach. If these two things aren’t aligned, then these tips probably won’t be as helpful. Some professionals say that the most important factor…

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August 23, 2026

Embracing the Ebbs & Flows Of Life & Reflecting In the Lulls.

Everything has rhythms—our seasons, the tides, where we are in life. I enjoy riding the waves of clarity and productivity. I find myself frustrated in the lulls where I feel as though I’ve lost motivation, and my path seems foggy….

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August 3, 2026

The Difference Between Walls and Boundaries

Setting boundaries & building walls. Are they the same? How could they be different? At first glance, these phrases seem interchangeable. Let’s explore the subtle yet profound difference between the two. Building Walls In The Dark Why do we build…

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July 27, 2026

The Power Of Flexibility In Life

“Water is fluid, soft, and yielding. But water will wear away rock, which is rigid and cannot yield. As a rule, whatever is fluid, soft, and yielding will overcome whatever is rigid and hard. This is another paradox: What is…

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July 20, 2026

Why Not Going To Therapy Costs More Than Going

When I hear people say they can’t afford therapy, I wonder if they’ve considered the cost of not getting the help they need? Then I remember that not everyone understands how much pain they actually carry and how it shapes…

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July 13, 2026

Human Design Generators: What It Means To Be Lit Up

Note: This post is not for people brand new to Human Design. I wouldn’t know where to begin to explain what Human Design is for those who aren’t already familiar. If you are new to Human Design, a quick Google…

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July 6, 2026

5 Creative Exercises To Help Adoptees Heal & Reconnect With Themselves

Some wounds don’t have words. Sometimes the wound reaches a depth that is beyond words. We are creative beings. Some believe that if you aren’t using your creative energy, it starts creating dis-ease within the body. Art is often used…

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June 21, 2026

Untangling Our Roots Summit – A Review

This is my experience attending the Untangling Our Roots Summit (UTOR) for the first time, as an adoptee and introvert who loves conferences. What are the basics Why did i attend this conference I was curious about how the experience…

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May 8, 2026

Mother Hunger by Kelly McDaniel — A Book Review

I do not remember how I came upon Mother Hunger by Kelly McDaniel, but I remember, even years later, the impact it had on me. I am an avid reader of self-help and psychology. I am always collecting knowledge to…

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